Excerpts from
A Traditional Jewish Woman's Odyssey,
Mrs. Elsie Weismans Oral History
Part I -
I AM ELSIE WEISMAN WEISMAN
My name is Elsie Weisman. My name was Weisman before I got married, so thats my middle name. Elsie Weisman Weisman. They are pronounced differently, but spelled the same. I was Wisssman [phonetic] before, and I became Wiseman [phonetic] after I got married. My husband and I are related to each other.
I am Elsie Weisman Weisman.
My legal name is Elsie. My mother gave me a Jewish name of Hessel. I choose Esther as my Hebrew name. I wanted a Hebrew name. And Hessel is a boys name, and Elsie is not a Hebrew name its American or English, whatever you choose to call it.
In my parents family, I'm the only one that ever retained any kind of Jewishness or religiosity. I belong to Beth El; I've been a member there for about fifty years. |
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I don't feel special. I don't. I feel like I'm an ordinary person, I'm me, I'm Elsie Weisman. After my husband died, I said: I'm no longer Mrs. Maurice Weisman, I'm Mrs. Elsie Weisman. That's what I am, okay. I'm Reina's, Judi's, Irwins Mother, but I'm still Elsie. That's what I am. |
I was born April 30, 1911.
I came from a very humble beginning.
I got married because I wanted to have a home,
I wanted to have children.
I raised my children myself. So, I made a lot of mistakes. Parenting its not easy. Im sure I made a lot of mistakes, but the love and caring and respect that I get from my children its wonderful.
Im a homemaker; I have been one since I was 24 years old.
Most of my compliments as a homemaker come for my skills in the kitchen.
I like to bake, its one of the things I am good at, but I am not just about cooking and baking.
When I get stressed I yell, thats how I let out stress.
I'm always reading.
Im a classical music buff.
I do love to travel. I spread my wings and flew.
I consider myself a traditional Jewish woman.
Im a bridge player, not a card player.
Im Jewish, and Im very Zionistically inclined.
I feel I am very much a part of Israel.
I'm just a middle class lady.
I take care of myself financially, it isnt a lot, but I do it.
I am very definitely pro-choice
I leaned toward the Democratic Party
I pride myself that I have good friends who were college graduates and I only went to high school. And we are mutually compatible
I dont care if its the best man in the world; I am not interested in getting married again. You know Im glad I can take care of myself.
I am, a tough old bird.
Only my body feels ninety years old. My mind doesn't feel that old. I keep asking myself where did the years go? Where did they go?
I'm just grateful that I get up every morning.
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